To myself.
I'm not sure where to start with everything, but I know that all of this is wearing me out. I'm so tired and all I want to do is run lately. [not that that's a bad thing cuz I'm getting in shape] But people in my life are very frustrating right now.
How is a person supposed to deal with a person full of self pity and arrogance? My mom always told me to deal with people like that with compassion and i have been doing that. But it's getting old. It's getting repetitive and I need some change. Not just in the people that I put up with but just my life in general. It's driving me insane to the point that I'm not really sure exactly what I'm writing anymore. It's all just flowing out heavier and heavier lately and....ahhhhh!
Anyways...that's what's going on right now with me...well drama wise.
I still don't have a new phone. And I still need my surgery uber bad. [[i've got bunions...calcium build up on my feet]]
It's just a tad painful...it's fine. whateve.
blahhh...
imma dip out.
posted by Kenzy @ 2:43:00 PM
2 Comments:
It is emotionally draining to deal with people full of self-pity. Yes compassion is good but there is a line to draw in the sand when compassion turns into enabling the person to continue to wallow in their self-pity. Where that line is can only be determined by you with guidance by someone who is not emotionally involved in the relationship.
You need to make sure that you take time for yourself to regroup and get some fresh air. Running is good. Not talking to the self-pitying person for a few days is good too. Bubble baths are nice. So are good books [(mysteries are my fav as well as Katherine Kurtz' Deryni Series (sci-fi fantasy)].
As for the bunion surgery, all I can say is MAJOR OUCH. I know someone who had that surgery. She did great during recovery. Was a slow road but she was glad she did it. Pain free! YAY!
Hugs from an East Coast Mom
Yeah, pain and people...
sometimes we all wish they'd both just go away.
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