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Tuesday, October 28, 2008

questions without answers

In this life we all need patience; it's key to getting along in this life. I've thought about this a lot
actually[[what we need most of]] and it really is patience. To be able to get through daily activities we need it. I wouldn't be able to get through a simple activity such as...taking a shower in the morning if i didn't have the gift of patience. I know that to conquer sin i need to first conquer my pride...but to conquer my pride i need patience. right?!

weird stuff.
Anyways, I'm not sure why i am here writing any of these words but it's what i like to do and so i'm going to do it. I wish i could actually write something with deep meaning, well that i would want to share with you guys. Because, trust me, i got some deep writings in my journal upstairs. But I can't bring myself to share that kind of thing with you guys.

I was thinking the other day about the way all of us are, the way we can't trust each other anymore to even be told the truth. I can understand the times when the truth is difficult to tell someone, such as: telling your parents you're pregnant or you've been doing drugs or telling a significant other that you're cheating on them. THAT'S THE DIFFICULT TRUTH. but just being HONEST with each other is something we all have problems with day to day. But why? Why can't we just be honest with each other and not be rude about things and talk about each other? Why is it that if you give a stranger a smile or a hug that you're considered weird? or that if you decide to talk to some kid at a table by themselves that you're put down for talking to an "outkast" or just simply saying hi to them? What's wrong with that? Why do people put you down for saying the things you wonder about or think about even though youre not the only one with these thoughts? Why are there different "types" of people when really if you ask two different people a question such as "what's your favorite color?" their answers will most likely be the same. Why does it matter what our mistakes or mess ups are when really it doesn't define the kind of person you are on the inside. Why do we have to blame others for other people's problems or our own problems? why can't we just accept that it's our OWN FAULT that we made a mistake?

I shouldn't have to be asking these questions.


Anonymous Anonymous said...

Aw my sweet Mary Kenzy,

These questions are as old as time itself, when you find the answers I hope you will share them with me. Even us ole lady's learn from you precious youngins!

I love & appreciate the uniqueness of you, you really think "outside of the box" and you're writing and the way you treat others show its.

So go ahead and hug a stranger, Say hi to one, give a compliment to another, you never KNOW when a act of kindness might just make someone Else's day! Even say hi to a clerk in a store making eye contact. Buying a dessert for a family in a restaurant Anonymous is fun. Watching them trying to figure out who did it. hhehehe...I love doing that one especially when there are Lil kids involved. Its FUN !!

Isn't that what Christ would do, he did the Unexpected, calming the waters, cleanses the sick, and loving the poor. Didn't HE gives us special talents, different from others so that we can be uniquely HIS and to help others?

We ALL get caught up as children/adults to wanna be in the "IN crowd", I wonder alotta times IF that is what Christ would really want us to be, tooo "kewl" ! I don't know the answers to that question or the one about being upfront & honest,I do know I do offend folks when I am direct and honest, but I do know they know where I stand, so dont ask IF you don't really want the answer, but I will tell ya, surround yourself with family and friends that LOVE you, seek their advice and ponder their wisdom.

We live thru the years of OUR mistakes/sins learning and hopefully growing closer to Christ in the process. We JUST hate that we can't protect our precious children from sin, I guess Christ feels the same way about each of us. I am certainly glad that HE forgives. Forgiveness and PATIENCE as you so amazing said, is the KEY to getting us thru life, You are incredibly smart lil lady. *grins big*.....I learn something today about you and Patience I had NOT thought of, it is the KEY to getting us thru life....Embrace Life and you're talents. Know that the LOVE I feel for you grows daily because of you're uniqueness!

I Love ya DEARLY

Ms. Sheryl

Friday, October 31, 2008 10:42:00 AM  
Blogger s-p said...

wellll...if YOU don't ask these questions, who will? And if you don't do those things, who will? And if you aren't honest, who will be?
If people don't like truth, whose problem is that? Better to be crucified for truth and love than lauded for lies and pride.

Friday, November 07, 2008 5:17:00 PM  

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